It is time to break the patterns of seriousness that are generated by fear.
Telling stories of past fear is simply your controlling ego saying, “see I told you so.” That is not what the Universe/God wants for you. You may begin to break the grip of fear by telling stories of love and gratitude. In doing so the cycle of fear will begin to dissolve.
You cannot do this for anyone else; you can only do it for yourself. They must do it for themselves as well. Encourage others, but do not tell them what to do or how they should be.
It truly is all about you in the most positive way.