To truly love yourself you must first look inward and allow your heart to identify your strengths and weaknesses. Please note; do not allow your ego to label your weaknesses as faults, for they are not and this form of labeling is what leads you down the road to seeing yourself as a victim.
Allow your heart to love and embrace your strengths, as well as your weaknesses. Understand that both are important to acknowledge for they make up the beautiful, unique YOU, and therein lies much to love.
Acknowledge your strengths to yourself and distribute them widely. Acknowledge your weaknesses to yourself and ask for help and assistance in these areas. Please note; this is a conversation you need to have with yourself and with no one else. Let your future actions speak for yourself, not your words.