You are all connected. When you dismiss the judging and measuring you will begin to see the connections with clarity. This does not mean that you will like what you see; however, that is not the point. The point is to see with clarity what is real and what is true. From this perspective, listen with your heart and not your mind. Your mind will tend to misunderstand while your heart never will. The mind speaks and interprets with only words, while your heart interprets with feelings first, that then evoke the appropriate words.